Muka dia sebenarnya biasa saja tapi I suka personaliti dia
Being asked whether you have ever fallen for someone at first sight is – not to mention – too cliché. Am right, people? Girls – I’ll bet – have been asked by those among themselves and answered such a question more than guys could have thought. Unlike girls, guys mostly do not ask and answer that kind of question because they experience it quite often. Just so you know, guys by and large tend to look at the physical beauty of girls’ before getting or even trying to know what the girls have inside them.
I am not stating this baselessly. Dato’ Fadzilah Kamsah once claimed the same thing. He said that the physical beauty a girl owned would attract a guy to get to know her. That is why it is imperative for girls to care for their appearances and never take the way they dress up for granted. I guess our pride – I mean us, the girls – is there somewhere, in our image. Hmm… I guess so.
Instead of answering or mulling over the have-you-ever-fallen-for-someone-at-first-sight question, I would rather ask myself whether or not I have the qualities for guys to fall for me at first sight. And that’s actually the thing that I wanted to tell in the first place!
The only thing that would never ever happen to me is: Guys falling in love with me at first sight.
I am not kidding, guys. I am dead serious.
1. I am short and my height has not grown since I was 12. If people shout shockingly out loud that I look like a 12-year-old kid, they are not kidding and you ought to believe them. The proof is, the baju kurung I wore when I was 12 still fits me right.
2. I am podgy. Podgy, according to TheFreeDictionary.com means short and fat. I am, yaw. I hope you’re not fooled by the picture put at the side bar. My sister said that it was a camera-trick. As a proof to the fact that I am fat, my weight is you-do-not-want-to-know, seriously.
3. People say that being podgy makes me look cute. I wish I could screw them but they are my friends. Of course they have to say that because they are my friends. How about other strangers? Would they think the same thing too? Guys do not regard being podgy as a cuteness. They regard it as asickness.
4. I do not dress to kill. I still wear the archaic tudung bawal. I am not up to hanatajima or whatsoever. I wear a loose t-shirt with jeans to a shopping complex. I put on what I am comfortable with.
5. I do not wear cosmetic products except for eyeliner. I am sadly allergic to cosmetics.
To sum all up, I do not have the qualities to be fallen for at first sight. I guess it is important for all of us to know whether or not we have the qualities because knowing the fact – be it we have the qualities or not – will prevent us from being jealous of others who own the criteria, make us even more sensible and perhaps teach us to improve our weaknesses or be grateful.
You know what, if any guy tells me that he likes me because I am cute, I will just thank him and ignore him after that. My physical cuteness will not last forever. There are times when I wake up from a wonderful nap, I look like a zombie. There are times when I sneeze unstoppably, I look like a clown. And when I laugh, my cuteness automatically disappears for I sound as though I was shouting instead of laughing gleefully.
"I would rather be liked and loved for who I am, for how I stand in front of my class and do my presentation and speak up my mind, for the knowledge I am eager to share with people, for why I do not wear makeup and stylish clothes, for how I care for those who are close to me, as well as other abstract reasons that one will learn after knowing me for a considerable length of time."
My latest ex-boyfriend – who some of you might already know – used to like me for who I was. He never said anything about me looking cute or pretty. He said things like, “My baby is a genius,” “You’ve got the brain,” and etc. The conversation I wrote at the beginning of this post was the conversation my friend had with him when we were at the stage of getting to know each other.
That is why I have more net-friends than real friends because my net-friends know my personality through my writings but friends-wannabe? They are hardly attracted to me because I do not own the attractiveness that pulls them to get to know me better. Another way of saying this is,
I would never be fallen for at first sight.
Okay. I just made myself sound danged pathetic. I did not mean to but I was just being sensible, you know? Hehehehe.
Ps ; The title of this entry refers to Nicholas Sparks’ novel. A must-read novel.
I am not stating this baselessly. Dato’ Fadzilah Kamsah once claimed the same thing. He said that the physical beauty a girl owned would attract a guy to get to know her. That is why it is imperative for girls to care for their appearances and never take the way they dress up for granted. I guess our pride – I mean us, the girls – is there somewhere, in our image. Hmm… I guess so.
Instead of answering or mulling over the have-you-ever-fallen-for-someone-at-first-sight question, I would rather ask myself whether or not I have the qualities for guys to fall for me at first sight. And that’s actually the thing that I wanted to tell in the first place!
The only thing that would never ever happen to me is: Guys falling in love with me at first sight.
I am not kidding, guys. I am dead serious.
1. I am short and my height has not grown since I was 12. If people shout shockingly out loud that I look like a 12-year-old kid, they are not kidding and you ought to believe them. The proof is, the baju kurung I wore when I was 12 still fits me right.
2. I am podgy. Podgy, according to TheFreeDictionary.com means short and fat. I am, yaw. I hope you’re not fooled by the picture put at the side bar. My sister said that it was a camera-trick. As a proof to the fact that I am fat, my weight is you-do-not-want-to-know, seriously.
3. People say that being podgy makes me look cute. I wish I could screw them but they are my friends. Of course they have to say that because they are my friends. How about other strangers? Would they think the same thing too? Guys do not regard being podgy as a cuteness. They regard it as a
4. I do not dress to kill. I still wear the archaic tudung bawal. I am not up to hanatajima or whatsoever. I wear a loose t-shirt with jeans to a shopping complex. I put on what I am comfortable with.
5. I do not wear cosmetic products except for eyeliner. I am sadly allergic to cosmetics.
To sum all up, I do not have the qualities to be fallen for at first sight. I guess it is important for all of us to know whether or not we have the qualities because knowing the fact – be it we have the qualities or not – will prevent us from being jealous of others who own the criteria, make us even more sensible and perhaps teach us to improve our weaknesses or be grateful.
You know what, if any guy tells me that he likes me because I am cute, I will just thank him and ignore him after that. My physical cuteness will not last forever. There are times when I wake up from a wonderful nap, I look like a zombie. There are times when I sneeze unstoppably, I look like a clown. And when I laugh, my cuteness automatically disappears for I sound as though I was shouting instead of laughing gleefully.
"I would rather be liked and loved for who I am, for how I stand in front of my class and do my presentation and speak up my mind, for the knowledge I am eager to share with people, for why I do not wear makeup and stylish clothes, for how I care for those who are close to me, as well as other abstract reasons that one will learn after knowing me for a considerable length of time."
My latest ex-boyfriend – who some of you might already know – used to like me for who I was. He never said anything about me looking cute or pretty. He said things like, “My baby is a genius,” “You’ve got the brain,” and etc. The conversation I wrote at the beginning of this post was the conversation my friend had with him when we were at the stage of getting to know each other.
That is why I have more net-friends than real friends because my net-friends know my personality through my writings but friends-wannabe? They are hardly attracted to me because I do not own the attractiveness that pulls them to get to know me better. Another way of saying this is,
I would never be fallen for at first sight.
Okay. I just made myself sound danged pathetic. I did not mean to but I was just being sensible, you know? Hehehehe.
Ps ; The title of this entry refers to Nicholas Sparks’ novel. A must-read novel.
6 comments:
100% agreeeeeeee! hehehe.
Well said.
Have you heard about this phrase, saying,
"Brainy is the new sexy"
Hehehe.
:P
ANISS; High-five bebeh! (:
V; Thank you :)
JUDIENE; The world sure would be a wonderful place to live in if all men thought that way -- "Brany is the new sexy". Hahahaha :D
aha! when i first saw the title of this entry, i quickly thought of nich sparks. then i said nah.. maybe it's just random. then at the end, u did mention his name. i was like, gotcha! haha. love his novels!
anyway, there is such thing as love at first sight. but i dont know, personally, i just think it's merely admiration over beauty, not love. duh. haha. you're right. everyone should be loved for their knowledge and wisdom. it's something that lasts forever. unlike physical beauty. :)
I love his novels too! I'm currently reading True Believers. I know I should have read it first before I read At First Sight but apa apa jelah kan. Hehe.
I don't know too but there are some special cases where those who fell for their partners at first sight are happily married now. Haha :D I guess it depends on our own lucks. Right? (:
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