This one little girl who is full of herself (I guess) has put Malaysians in shock with her provocatively controversial and scandalous statement of her no longer being a virgin. I have not visited her blog nor have I given my opinion regarding this stimulating issue. Yet, some people have asked for my opinion regarding the girl and I don’t know whether it’s me who is being so sensitive or whatnot, but I am offended by the way their questions seem to sound.
“Have ever got yourself involved in similar scene like Datin Milano’s?”
“You sure are fine with Datin Milano’s statement?”
Well, let me tell you this. Some might already know that I am a broadminded kind of person who is open to any questions but that doesn’t mean I will embarrass myself! Hell no, people.
I have never got myself involved in any kind of sexual relationship that puts my virginity at stake. Yes, I am embarrassed with some people of the same race with me which is Malay but I am still a Malay and my everyday life is accustomed to Malay’s way of life, which means I am well-aware of the Malays’ acceptance on Malay girls without virginity. Although I kind of disagree with most of the Malays’ thought that girls who have lost their virginity are likely to be immoral, I can never divest myself of being Malay. Can I? It is in my blood.
Am I fine with the girl’s thwarting statement? Compose yourself, people. Condemning and cursing the girl will bring you and her no good, in any way. Why would you do something wasteful? Aren’t you witty? Aren’t you smart? At least smart than the girl? Come to think of it, the statement would not matter if she were a white people or a non-Muslim or a Malaysian. As a matter of fact, losing her virginity would be something to be proud of. Her statement is somewhat true, though. It is true that many Malaysian girls regardless of what race have lost their virginity at a very young age. It was either by means of being raped by inhumane people or the girls’ own willingness.
Guys, the truth is always bitter. So is the past. You can either run from it or learn from it. You choose. I would not say that I am fine with the statement but I think it is her right to say whatever she wants. It is her blog, anyway. She was simply trying to express her view regarding sex, I guess. Unfortunately, she's used incorrect words which has caused her to be misinterpreted by others. You know what, if she were an American, she would win the case.
A French philosopher once said, “I may not agree with what you say but I will defend to the death your right to say it.”
Just because you strongly disagree, guys, doesn’t mean you’re right. If you could choose to advise and lead her to a better life by means of a better way, why would you prefer violence? Accusing, cursing, swearing are violence, for fear that you don’t know.
Well, I thought you guys were not terrorists.
“You sure are fine with Datin Milano’s statement?”
Well, let me tell you this. Some might already know that I am a broadminded kind of person who is open to any questions but that doesn’t mean I will embarrass myself! Hell no, people.
I have never got myself involved in any kind of sexual relationship that puts my virginity at stake. Yes, I am embarrassed with some people of the same race with me which is Malay but I am still a Malay and my everyday life is accustomed to Malay’s way of life, which means I am well-aware of the Malays’ acceptance on Malay girls without virginity. Although I kind of disagree with most of the Malays’ thought that girls who have lost their virginity are likely to be immoral, I can never divest myself of being Malay. Can I? It is in my blood.
Am I fine with the girl’s thwarting statement? Compose yourself, people. Condemning and cursing the girl will bring you and her no good, in any way. Why would you do something wasteful? Aren’t you witty? Aren’t you smart? At least smart than the girl? Come to think of it, the statement would not matter if she were a white people or a non-Muslim or a Malaysian. As a matter of fact, losing her virginity would be something to be proud of. Her statement is somewhat true, though. It is true that many Malaysian girls regardless of what race have lost their virginity at a very young age. It was either by means of being raped by inhumane people or the girls’ own willingness.
Guys, the truth is always bitter. So is the past. You can either run from it or learn from it. You choose. I would not say that I am fine with the statement but I think it is her right to say whatever she wants. It is her blog, anyway. She was simply trying to express her view regarding sex, I guess. Unfortunately, she's used incorrect words which has caused her to be misinterpreted by others. You know what, if she were an American, she would win the case.
A French philosopher once said, “I may not agree with what you say but I will defend to the death your right to say it.”
Just because you strongly disagree, guys, doesn’t mean you’re right. If you could choose to advise and lead her to a better life by means of a better way, why would you prefer violence? Accusing, cursing, swearing are violence, for fear that you don’t know.
Well, I thought you guys were not terrorists.
3 comments:
very well said Eeqa, that's true.
i have a feeling that Lion King's dialogue is put in here. heheheh
Aniss; Thank you (:
Kaklang; Yeah, the past part. Run or learn. I wish I could insert a video of that part. There's so much one can learn ;)
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